Cheers to 30 Years!
You guys, I turn 30 in March. THIRTY YEARS OLD! I’m low-key freaking out about it, but mostly excited. I can’t even describe the feeling. So many emotions. Is this real life? Where has the time gone? And where the heck is my husband?!
I KNOW SOME OF YOU WOMEN CAN RELATE TO THIS FEELING.
I get so many questions everyday; everything from questions about my dating life, opinions on all these dating apps, my social life, my career, what skincare products I use, where I shop for my clothes, what my makeup routine is, my work out regimen, my diet, what my dream wedding/ring/man looks like, how important my faith is in dating, you name it, I’m asked these things on the daily…
So it’s time to answer these questions.
So together with Lindsey Tuer (who was on Coupled with me), we will be posting vlogs every single month answering your questions- sort of like we did with our Coupled Refills!
Lindsey is currently 30 years old and so she knows a thing or two about all these feels! We literally cannot believe how the time flies and all that we’ve learned in our three decades of life. She knows exactly what I’m talking about here…. and I KNOW there are so many of you ladies out there in your 30s who can relate to us too!! We see you!
You’re the hard working woman who supports herself.
You are a single lady at a time where everyone around you is married…or at least coupled.
You’re the very proud auntie to your own biological nieces and nephews, but also to the many adorable babies all your friends are having too.
We bond over the feeling of having more bridesmaids dresses in our closets than shoes (well maybe not more than shoes but you get the point.)
We know what it’s like to attend engagement parties, bridal showers, bachelorette parties, weddings, baby showers, gender reveal parties and birthday parties for our friends and families, nearly every single weekend since we were 26.
We totally get the anxiousness that comes with aging…like not having those aforementioned things quite yet, but yet definitely having wrinkles and other STUFF going on.
We completely miss the days where we could eat whatever we wanted without worrying; where working out wasn’t THIS hard, where we had more GNO* and less FOMO** because we had more fellow single girlfriends to go out with.
(GNO = girls night out. FOMO= fear of missing out.)***
And of course, we fondly miss the days before Tinder, where dating wasn’t so sketchy and complicated. Remember pagers? We sort of do…
Just to be clear, we are fully aware of the AWESOMENESS that comes with being in your 30s; like knowing exactly who you are. By now, you know what you will never settle on in relationships.
You have more confidence in your career and what you see for yourself.
You’re more selective on who you allow in your life; and more importantly- who you let go of.
You no longer tolerate toxic energy.
You’re more confident in your looks than ever before-and all without trying as hard as we did in our 20s!!! #cleanses #detoxes #30daychallenges – we will do all of these and tell you what works for us.
That’s why we will be calling this series: “Cheers to 30 Years.” The ups, the downs, the boyfriends, the no-boyfriends, the things that have worked for us, the things that didn’t work for us, our tips, tricks, secrets, and how we feel about things going on in the world from our perspective… all of it will be right here. The good, the bad and the ugly!
And there will be wine. Because that’s what people our age do! amirite?
Cheers to what is sure to be a hilarious, deep, honest and candid vlog series from the bottom of our hearts… and wine glasses.